"Ah," Will says, nodding a bit. "It might be that you're approaching that from different angles. I don't think she can give you particular examples. And I don't think she should, either. It wouldn't be satisfying to either of you. You're going to have to decide what you think is big or little on your own. Which...I know all the feelings are a lot. I think, the more you look at them, though? You'll find some tells for the ones you can't deal with and the others you might be able to wrangle if you practice with them."

He nabs one of the bites and pops it in his mouth, finishing it before continuing. "It'll take trial and error, and not everyone's going to agree with you. But you knowing what's important for you to have mastery over is going to be very helpful. It'll help you focus your energy on what you desire." Not what he needs to do, what he wants. It's an important distinction, in Will's mind.