That's not the word I would use, but... I don't remember many conversations where he wasn't angry with me. And I suppose, if I'm angry, and in the moment I want to hurt someone, pulling from what's hurt me before is easier than figuring out some other more pointed, specific way to hurt who ever I'm angry at.
I know it works, or at least I know it worked on me.
Re: TW SA mention
I know it works, or at least I know it worked on me.