I understand that.

And Malcolm, when I say this, it's not singling you out. I'm not trying to tell you this is your fault, specifically, singularly.

But if people who choose to come here and deal with the population they know are going to also be here can't handle being the one to overcome their trauma and frustration and keep making the effort? Then it's their own fault that they're here. Inmates don't owe wardens anything, and maybe some of the people who come here as inmates aren't capable of making the gesture first.