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[abrightboy]

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Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

...Yeah being all in isn't a healthy boundary, Malcolm.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

And yet you have no comment on the boundaries I did set.

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

Your request was that I forgo my own boundaries if I agree right now. That's not a solid boundary.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

….How was it that?

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

I already told you I wasn't going to be fickle about engaging. So you asking me to not remove them implies I would have already thought about the consequences, and you still asked me not to do it if I agree to it right now, because you're 'all in'.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

No. I said only put them with me once you’re sure. For that reason.

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

I can try. That's all I can promise. Things change, people change, dynamics change.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

I understand that. I wasn’t writing you a contract. I was telling you what I require for my emotional wellbeing if we’re going to collaborate.

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

Okay. I understand.

Is it enough for you that I'll try? That I'll come to you and try to collaborate before cutting anything off?

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

Yes.

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

Okay. Then I promise.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

Thank you.