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Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

Have you ever tried to hurt Cain that way?

Re: TW SA mention

[inthebiblicalsense]

[He thinks a moment, considering. The only time he thinks he's ever hurt Cain was when he'd told him he didn't want to hear his excuses and that they were done. Despite how upset he'd been, he feels like it had been rather appropriate.]

No. We bickered, but... there was only two instances that I ever actually yelled at him. The beginning, and the end, really. And both times, I feel like what I said was rather justified. That last time, I didn't even want to hurt him, I was just upset and couldn't understand why he'd do something like that to someone.

Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

Did he explain it to you?

Re: TW SA mention

[inthebiblicalsense]

He tried to. At the time I didn't want to listen to him.

I remember what he said though, and the more time I've spent with it, the more I can accept why, but that doesn't make it any better. Justification doesn't just, fix it.

Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

No, of course not. What would fix it, in your mind? What would you need from him to forgive him?

Re: TW SA mention

[inthebiblicalsense]

The problem is, I think I have forgiven him, at least for participating. I'm here because I was desperate enough to want to leave where I was, at least for a little while, and get something vitally important to me in exchange for a mission. It isn't the same, but there is a parallel.

But the difference between what we were asked to do? Thats...that's where the comparison falls apart.

And I don't know what it would take to fix that. Everything he did, I actively participated in myself, so he's not the only one to blame here. If I had just let myself stop to think for a minute, it wouldn't have been so painful.

I created some of that suffering by trusting him despite everything happening around us. I should have been smarter than that.

Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

You trusted someone because you loved them and now you feel stupid for believing him. For not seeing it.

Re: TW SA mention

[inthebiblicalsense]

[There is that feeling that rises up again at that word, and he can't quite identify it. He isn't sure if it's shame, anger, disgust or simply embarrassment, but it twists up in him and gets his body tense.]

I trusted him because we were assigned together. If we weren't compatible, we were going to die, and he was supposed to watch my back, just like I watched his. I wasn't in love with him.

Yes, I felt stupid that I had ignored it... I defended him to people trying to tell me things he'd done when I wasn't around to see it, and I didn't believe them. It was entirely humiliating, and in the end, when he finally told me why, all I got was some bullshit excuse instead of an apology. As if having a change of heart, finally feeling guilty about what he'd done because he saw me as a person instead of a mission would magically make it all okay.

I thought I might be worth more than that, and I'm not so sure any more. [He takes in a shuttering breath and leans forward, elbows on the counter to press his palms against his eyes. It isn't worth cry over, it's fine.]

Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

More than… the excuse? Is the apology what you really want from him?

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[inthebiblicalsense]

[Worth is measured in so many ways. His own self worth, his worth to the fleet, to the world, to his father, to Cain. The fact that Cain had to change his mind about his value, that he meant nothing and was nothing to him for how ever long? What part of him made him worth anything? Enough to change his mind? He wasn't sure he'd believe it even if Cain told him straight out.]

It would be a start? There are things that he did, when we first met, that...Nothing in the files made any mention of, that it was a requirement, and I have to look at it, every day and wonder why. Why would he do that if he didn't have to?

It's there forever, but if he apologized, or even explained why, made it make sense somehow, I could maybe start to let go of it. Stop asking myself what if's and trying to reason my way through his thought process every time I look in the mirror.

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[abrightboy]

Why is it important to you to understand his thought process or why he did it?

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[inthebiblicalsense]

I...I think it's only natural to want to understand why someone would hurt you, but If I know, I can get some control back.

I can't stop myself thinking about it, questioning why. It's always on the back of my mind, but if I did know, I wouldn't have to, and that would help, at least I'd like to think it would.

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[abrightboy]

Maybe. What do you want the answer to be?

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[inthebiblicalsense]

I don't know...

If it was just out of necessity? That would make it palatable, but- [He leans forward a little, resting his forehead against the side of his open hand, staring hard a the counter. The only person he'd specifically told about Cain's involvement in the scar across his lips was Fitz, and while he hated talking about it, it was the thing that he usually got caught up on when he tried to reason his way though Cain's thought process.]

I can't come up with any explanation for why he needed to scar my face. It so permanent, and I know it's one of the first things people see when they look at me, everyone's just too polite to mention it. If he wanted to make sure everyone knew they couldn't talk to me, there are so many other ways...

Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

Maybe it has nothing to do with warning anyone. Maybe he wanted to mark you so when he looks at you, he knows you're his. And when you look at you, you know it too. It's not... uncommon.

Re: TW SA mention

[inthebiblicalsense]

[Abel looks up at Malcolm, trying to figure out the best way to say what he wants to say.]

You know, I have a lot of difficulty talking about this, and spend most of my time, thinking about these things in the back of my head while I do anything else. I have come up with so many different possibilities. The ones that I don't like, I try not to entertain much, because what good does it do me?

If I'm going to have to think about it, the ones that hurt less get pushed to the front. I...Don't think what I want right now, is probabilities.

Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

Okay.

Re: TW SA mention

[inthebiblicalsense]

[The short response is enough to push Abel forward, because he knows it's another issue he has, and if he can't clarify here? Where else could he.]

Did I do that right? I don't feel like I can ask for things very often. I know how to stand up for myself, but...when it's little things, it's more difficult.

Personal comfort isn't big on my priority list.

Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

I don't know that there's a "right" way to do it, but you set a boundary and I backed off. ...Did I not do that right?

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[inthebiblicalsense]

[Abel can't help but laugh, shaking his head. It was like the blind leading the blind.]

I don't know. I think you did fine? At the very least, I wasn't uncomfortable, just nervous by how short you were in response.

I'm used to people pushing more, I suppose. Or not setting boundaries at all. It's a work in progress, but It's necessary, I think. I'm not in service any more, I'm allowed to ask for things...it's just not something I've had many opportunities to do.

Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

I've been told I push too much, so I'm trying to... not.

Do you want to leave it there for today and we can talk again when you're ready?

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[inthebiblicalsense]

Well, perhaps we can workshop it. Some people need a push. But it depends on when and where you apply pressure, right? Finding those moments is difficult...but can be necessary.

And I think that's fine with me. I need a shower after that anyways...

Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

I'm trying to err on the side of not accidentally hurting people.

Re: TW SA mention

[inthebiblicalsense]

I think we all do that, but being too conscious of it might keep you from saying something someone needs to hear. I don't know...I didn't have friends before I came here, just Cain, but I do know all we can do is our best, so.

Thanks for bearing with me Malcolm. This is uncomfortable, but I'm sure it will be hard until it's not. I can deal with that.

[He gets up, stretching before nodding to the terrarium on the counter.]

That's beautiful by the way, You'll have to give me an animal tour sometime. But I'll leave it for later, let you get back to your day.

Re: TW SA mention

[abrightboy]

Oh. Okay. Yeah, sure. Um, if you come by when Will's dogs are here, there'll be even more animals.

[He stands, but he doesn't think he needs to walk Abel to the door.]