Date: 7 Sep 2024 04:22 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: direct look)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
[ He lifts his wrist to the camera where what looks almost like a braided gold bracelet with rose beads. It doesn't look like hair. It's so tightly cooked that it looks like wire jewelry. ]

The question about washing her hands didn't sound good after calling it gross.

Why didn't you just ask her about germs?

And why did that even come up? What does hair have to do with any of that?

Date: 7 Sep 2024 05:07 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: glancing away)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
I heard.

I don't understand why you'd question someone's hygiene because they were working with hair. I don't see the connection and without that connection, it comes off as insulting.

[ He shakes his head.]

I wouldn't have known you were interested, Malcolm. What you said and how you said it would have made me think you were disgusted. I did think that.

I asked because I know you.

Date: 7 Sep 2024 13:38 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: direct look)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
[ John's shoulders visibly relax. ]

Thank you.

And I think if you apologize, she might be willing to make you and Will some. She loves her art. It doesn't take much.

...I don't think you need to explain the misunderstanding, though.
Edited Date: 7 Sep 2024 13:45 (UTC)

Date: 7 Sep 2024 13:57 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: look to the light)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
I think you can just say 'I didn't express my interest well' and leave it at that.

I've found that sometimes when you explain too much, people take it as an excuse. Or even feel like you're explaining how they're stupid not to have understood you.

I know because I know you. But she doesn't. So it would lean on trust you don't have with her yet and that's hard because you hurt her.

...it doesn't really help the apology, is what I'm saying.

Date: 7 Sep 2024 14:19 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: glancing away)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
In person would be best: she can still walk out if she wants to.

And maybe... bring her a flower or a book of poetry as a peace offering, especially as you'd like her to make something for you. I think it would go a long way.

Date: 7 Sep 2024 14:59 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (Default)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
I think so.

She'll probably still be a little wary, but she trusts me.

Date: 7 Sep 2024 15:07 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: intimate)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
I don't think so.

She knew I was going to talk to you; I said I would. No real sense if hiding it. It's not like you liked hurting her and I yelled at you.

You didn't realize how you sounded. You didn't intend to hurt her. I think as long as your intent is to apologize for hurting her and insulting something important to her and you keep that at the forefront, everything else is less important.

Date: 7 Sep 2024 15:40 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: direct look)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
If it helps...

Talking about her art to her is like you talking about your relationship with Will. If you keep that in mind when you're talking to her, I think you'll be okay.

Date: 7 Sep 2024 16:03 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: WTF?)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
[ Blink. ]

People said things about your relationship with Will?

[ John didn't really hear about any of that. ]

Date: 7 Sep 2024 16:40 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: I can help!)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
Oh. Well.

Yes, I'm glad it's over. I'm glad he's graduated too, for lots of reasons. But if that also makes it easier for you two, then I'm especially glad.

Date: 7 Sep 2024 16:50 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: glancing away)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
Exactly. And that's the important part.

The Admiral dropped Natalie but I know where she is and I can go see her. Knowing she's alive and okay: that's more important than anything.

Date: 7 Sep 2024 17:05 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: down glance)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
Hopefully we'll be able to do something like that too, Arthur and I. But there's a few other deals we have to do first.

Date: 7 Sep 2024 17:39 (UTC)
greatoldjohn: (a gentleman: glancing away)
From: [personal profile] greatoldjohn
[ Another blink. ]

Justine's not my inmate. She's just... someone I'm very close to.

Astarion's still my inmate.

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