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[abrightboy]

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Re: private;

[abrightboy]

...Okay. Well, the ball will be in your court. I'm happy to help if you want me to. That being said, you have to be sure if you ask me. You can't just... yank them to their detriment after a few months because of something that's been a thing the whole time. Okay?

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

I'm going to have a hard time trusting your sense of boundaries for a long time, Malcolm. If I sense they aren't being properly enforced with my inmate I'm going to pull them. But I won't do it on a whim. And it won't be without talking to you and trying to find a solution first.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

Okay.

I have to protect myself too, you know. There has to be some level of professional courtesy if there won't be trust, because I can't invest like that if you're going to be fickle about allowing them to engage. There's a reason I only take clients by appointment. I give everything to the work, Jesus. I don't have space in me for tire kicking or bad faith.

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

...Yeah being all in isn't a healthy boundary, Malcolm.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

And yet you have no comment on the boundaries I did set.

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

Your request was that I forgo my own boundaries if I agree right now. That's not a solid boundary.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

….How was it that?

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

I already told you I wasn't going to be fickle about engaging. So you asking me to not remove them implies I would have already thought about the consequences, and you still asked me not to do it if I agree to it right now, because you're 'all in'.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

No. I said only put them with me once you’re sure. For that reason.

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

I can try. That's all I can promise. Things change, people change, dynamics change.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

I understand that. I wasn’t writing you a contract. I was telling you what I require for my emotional wellbeing if we’re going to collaborate.

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

Okay. I understand.

Is it enough for you that I'll try? That I'll come to you and try to collaborate before cutting anything off?

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

Yes.

Re: private;

[hippie_ninja]

Okay. Then I promise.

Re: private;

[abrightboy]

Thank you.